My Ideal To Get Married With

Marriage has always been a subject of significant importance in one’s life no matter what the era it is. With the passage of time technology kept improving human life but few of matters of human life turned even hard to be performed and shadi is one of them.


Today, finding a perfect match has become a big deal because of one being over informed and over sensitized and the credit goes to the web of virtual reality knitted by media. In an ancient time finding a good wife and a good husband was very simple because they had a brief criterion to meet in finding each other.There was always one crucial demand varying differently for which the rest could be overlooked but the new trends and complexities of web culture has made the demand list complex and entangled by generating pseudo desires and a glittering belief system that all the demands must be met.

What made choosing a life partner process difficult is our standards of choice and evaluation methods. Media and cross-cultural amalgamation due to globalization has made man of a culture to stay defiant from its own and made him long for what is not in his reach. An inch-deep beauty and mundane human characteristics are the evaluative measures in choosing life partner. When pseudo and shallow standards indoctrinated by alien media take place in society to measure and evaluate a person for marriage then reverberation and implication in the form of break ups and feuds are the results.

Moreover, if we analyses social system of Pakistan then Middle class is the most suffering class among others as lower class accepts blatantly what they have at their plate and higher class on the other hand having everything to maintain their haughty status takes responsibility to set standards and trends in society but middle-class in a stark comparison to the former two strives hard to keep up appearance as they are not what they look like and they have to bring on their plate what is not meant for them particularly in matrimony cases.

All we need to realize what is most important to live a happy life. Every social class is different from the other but all classes share one similarity which is, being human, a desire for the ideal in Rishta finding process. Ideals are subjective but there is a universal ideal standard reaching to the moral perfection, socially ideal and spiritually satisfying. A man must look humanity first in women instead of beauty which at volatile. He should prefer her education over her status and style. Maturity, modesty, hasb nasb humanity are the foremost characteristics to be judged upon.

The same phenomenon goes for man. When a woman looks for men she must prioritize few of real characteristics of personality over shallow and mundane one such as his job and potential to grow in his career must be on fore and later should come his looks and appearance. Hasb nasb, humanity, education, financial health, addiction come earlier to beauty. Satiation is the point where you stop otherwise the whole life is not enough to satiate you. Satisfaction is the key to content and smooth life and it comes by reducing standards to perfect length.....

Article Credits: Zarorat E Rishta

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