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Are You Still Learning To Live Together?

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Since the primordial age, count it from the period of Eve and Adam, couples are adjusting themselves according to the given standards for the optimal exercise of relationship within the parameters of social patterns. Human nature inherently is not complying and submitting to the oppressed forces whereas marital bond is kind of ironical bond in which both are bound to seek each other’s approval, though, in some societies the structural demand of society positioned one partner into servility to the other but it could be safely postulated that the sacred relationship never came across to the point of agreement where conformity could have got the chance to breed. Possessive wives are still in fashion Wives are skeptical, it is a common rhetoric, but if you think that with the advent of media and technology and modernity wives will emancipate themselves from the agony of doubt then you are in hallucinations. They will never stop loving their husbands and possessiveness comes w

Save Your Wife to Save Your Life

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It is no doubt a fact that women has the power to influence man’s life  no matter how strong he is or how rude he has been throughout his life but as soon as women enters in his life, thaw is the result  in his life which could be observe  by anyone. Harping on the formula that save your wife to save your life, many observers  draw an interesting conclusion which is an ultimate and sheer complaisant to your wife to save your life from the unnecessary tension. Is she is little annoying- Deal with it happily Women is an epitome of greatness. It very okay to bear her diatribes. Let her evolve and develop with confidence. No one can stay fake for longer. You cannot curb anyone for longer so let her be herself and you generate the patience level to bear her If she is demanding - try to meet the expectations What could be the height of demands she expect from you. In my opinion it would be not more than asking a home or a car or a dress or maybe she want to buy your time

Did you know what rights she has on you?

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In the  patriarchal   society ,  women  are  usually marginalized  in  every walk  of life and this  marginalization  takes  place  from her  home  where she  starts  suppressing  her  will ,  rights  and  wishes   intentionally  just to  provide  more  comfort  to  her family   specially  to her  husband .  Husbands  always  know  and  claim  their  rights  on their  wives . But the  question   arises  here: had there  been  any  debate  about  wife   rights  on her  husband  on  religion ,  political  and  social  grounds ? When the two  humans  come into  conciliation  and own  each  other  custody . There  comes  the  responsibility .  Responsibility   stretched  on every  area  of  her /his   life . Here  responsibility   denotes   rights .  Give  and  take  make life  easier  but where only  giving  and  giving  is  continuous  then  life   become  liability,  devoid  of  pleasure  and  happiness  instead of  blessing .  Living   love   life  is very  easy , you  need  no to 

What Makes A Bond Strong Between You Two

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What Makes A Bond Strong Between You Two There is always a room for perfection to reach amid culmination as modernity is an unending process . Keeping this rule of nature in mind , one must not end up giving up feeding relationship . Emotional compatibility , intellectual chemistry and trust level never be subsided or marginalized . There is always a need to work on it. Relationships are volatile in nature . To keep the status quo continuous fueling of love is as important as a fuel to fire . Emotional compatibility: Emotional quotient outweighs intellectual quotient . All human Interpersonal dealings can’t be managed only by using i-Q. emotional bonding is stronger than the bonding which has been bonded based on mere logic and reasoning . It dried out life from the life , love from the eyes , sweetness from the accents and kill the relationship cold bloodedly . Develop emotional compatibility and try solving problems by keeping emotional part of you alive in you.

Secret of survival is in keeping no secrets

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Secret of survival is in keeping no secrets Demonstration of the very nature of a human cannot be fettered in shackles , it manifests its true colors anyway. One cannot control , but when it is the case of matrimonial relation you must deviate from your nature , you must control your extempore nature to have the best out of your relationship because relationship needs to be worked upon and it constantly demands your efforts . The foremost advice is: Don’t brag about your good deeds and love but show it with your actions as the famous quote reads:’ action speaks louder than words ’. Contrarily , enunciate your miss- conduct and avoid showing it in your actions as earlier I warned that your actions are louder than words . This way you can earn her/his trust and trust is the bedrock of any relationship . Don’t tell but Show your love: Rishtay   ( relationships ) of any nature are sensitive specially relations between husband and wife . True love does not require one to

Pros and Cons of Being Married in Early Age

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Pros and Cons of Being Married in Early Age Rishta and shadi in Pakistan are the most serious issues no matter it is in the middle class or elite class . It is the do and die situation in the countryside of Pakistan . The issue is so engraved in the social pattern that parents are always wishing their children to get married as soon as possible . From this thinking the issue of early marriage erupts which has its own pros and cons . Its major proponent , Islam encourages early marriages due to numerous social , psychological and health related consequences whereas science discourages early marriage by harping on the same issues as its opponent do. Pros: One can escape Immoral activities Early marriages are good to go because it saves you from other false activities that are harmful for your image , character and for your social composure . Islam forbids from illegal relationship . Avoiding marriage can lead one to establish such relations . In Pakistan , social fabric

5 Tips for Online Proposals

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5 Tips for Online Proposals Online proposal are all about getting to know people at a deeper level and being able to make the right proactive choice for life-partner. Are you ready to meet your soul-mate ? If the answer is yes , you should consider the following advice ... 5 Tips for Online Proposals Image and Article Credits: Islamabad Rishta